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Sex & The City

Last night I watched an episode of Sex & The City that I hadn’t seen, can’t tell from what season it was.

I love it, so any episode is fine for me.

Carrie went out with her boyfriend, Berger, and the girls. Miranda had a date a few days before and the girls asked her about it. She answered she was waiting the guy to call which hadn’t happened yet. Then girls started each one giving a possible excuse for that: “He might be busy.”, “He might be waiting a few days not to show interest.” and things like that.

Then Berger simply said: “He is not that much into you.”, which cause some embarrassment among the other girls, not Miranda.

He continued: “Seriously. You’ll probably get an uncomfortable e-mail with a stupid excuse in a few days.”

The girls tried to make other excuses but Miranda took it very well. She said: “He is not into me. And it’s fine!”

And she thanked Berger for saving her time wondering about it.

Then 2 days later she got the e-mail and just smiled.

Oh, my God, it’s just a TV show, but it’s so so true. I thank Berger too 🙂 .

One reason

Give me one reason to stay here – and Ill turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here – and Ill turn right back around
Because I dont want leave you lonely
But you got to make me change my mind

Baby I got your number and I know that you got mine
But you know that I called you, I called too many times
You can call me baby, you can call me anytime
But you got to call me

Give me one reason to stay here – and Ill turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here – and Ill turn right back around
Because I dont want leave you lonely
But you got to make me change my mind

I dont want no one to squeeze me – they might take away my life
I dont want no one to squeeze me – they might take away my life
I just want someone to hold me and rock me through the night

This youthful heart can love you and give you what you need
This youthful heart can love you and give you what you need
But Im too old to go chasing you around
Wasting my precious energy

Give me one reason to stay here – and Ill turn right back around
Give me one reason to stay here – and Ill turn right back around
Because I dont want leave you lonely
But you got to make me change my mind

Baby just give me one reason – give me just one reason why
Baby just give me one reason – give me just one reason why I should stay
Because I told you that I loved you
And there aint no more to say

Directions

Have you ever felt like you’re taking the direction that reason indicates you but deep inside you would like to take a totally different one? Or when reason tells you to move away from something you don’t wanna leave?

That’s how I feel.

It happens when somebody comes and says: “Great, I’m glad for you!” and I answer that “Thanks” that can’t convince anyone and think “I wish I could feel glad about it too”.

There are things that can’t wait for a sign or a reason to be made. It will never come. You gotta be bold enough to try it.

Who’s ever sure of anything?

The Part And The Whole

[No, this is not about the Uncertainty Principle of Heisenberg. I’m not qualified for that 🙂 ]

Today I had lunch with a friend at work and she, like me, hates being surrounded by a crowd all the time.

She is married and we have many common friends and we are very like minded in many ways.

Like me, she likes to keep her privacy protected and doesn’t feel comfortable to discuss personal matters easily. As we are best friends and very close, we can count on each other for that and usually do that during lunch time. But our common friends, including her husband, say we are kind of weird, that we run away from people. We laugh together a lot about it.

Most people do the opposite. They feel much better surrounded by many other people all the time or as long as they can.

It’s not that I don’t do that too. I do, in fact I’m very easy going and can start conversation with different kind of people. I just don’t avoid the lonely moments.

I was thinking about it. It’s a good escape indeed. Maybe many people avoid that unique sensation of being yourself for much long.

I think while we are involved in many activities and surrounded by other people we forget that sensation, we kind of mix with everything else around. The part becomes the whole.

Being alone inevitably takes to that sensation of being a unique part, the sensation that no one else in the world can have or share with you, the awareness of who you are.

True friendship and love are the closest one can get of sharing it with someone else.